God knows that when someone tells me this, I don't have any objection, just respect their opinions, because I know that even without this ts hookup relationship, I can live happily, and so do my friends. But what happened next caught my attention. Shortly after they said they were not interested in anything serious, but secret hookups, each of them fell into a serious, loyal lgbt dating relationship. If you have experienced similar things, you can refer to the following points to explain why they did so.
1. He wants serious transgender dating, but not with you.
I know it sounds harsh, but sometimes it's true. Many people do want to make promises, but they need to make the right ones. What's the meaning of this? This does not mean that you have any problems, or that you should change for him, just to make him promise you. This means that you should terminate your trans dating relationship and blame him for his commitment to the next girl is meaningless. In fact, you should thank him for not promising you, because he saved you a lot of anxiety and saved you from more painful heartbreak.
2. He had no idea what he wanted.
There is another group of people who don't know what they really want. For me personally, this is the worst. When a person doesn't know what he wants, who he wants to be with, when to start a transgender dating relationship and how to start a relationship, he's really very likely to screw things up. Needless to say, indecision is a huge obstacle for any transgender woman. So if one day he says one thing to you and the next day he says another thing to you, you know he doesn't know what he really wants.
3. He's already dating someone else.
This is very interesting. Some men choose to date two transgender women at the same time because they are indecisive or simply because they are super jerks. He dated both of you and suddenly realized that he preferred another girl, so he decided to be loyal to her and abandon you. Ah, such an unbelievable world we live in. You can also interpret this as his unwillingness to hurt your feelings, or his unwillingness to be caught. Maybe he is more cheerful dating another girl or maybe he feels more tension being with you. There is no right or false in a ts dating relationship. Usually, people are driven by their feelings and emotions. Thus, when you encounter this situation, you need to withdraw without hesitation.